a vindication of the rights of woman-第43章

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y　ought　to　leave　the　go…cart　forever；　have　not　sufficient　strength　of　mind　to　efface　the　superinductions　of　art　that　have　smothered　nature。　Every　thing　that　they　see　or　hear　serves　to　fix　impressions；　call　forth　emotions；　and　associate　ideas；　that　give　a　sexual　character　to　the　mind。　　False　notions　of　beauty　and　delicacy　stop　the　growth　of　their　limbs　and　produce　a　sickly　soreness；　rather　than　delicacy　of　organs；　and　thus　weakened　by　being　employed　in　unfolding　instead　of　examining　the　first　associations；　forced　on　them　by　every　surrounding　object；　how　can　they　attain　the　vigour　necessary　to　enable　them　to　throw　off　their　factitious　character？where　find　strength　to　recur　to　reason　and　rise　superior　to　a　system　of　oppression；　that　blasts　the　fair　promises　of　spring？　　This　cruel　association　of　ideas；　which　every　thing　conspires　to　twist　into　all　their　habits　of　thinking；　or；　to　speak　with　more　precision；　of　feeling；　receives　new　force　when　they　begin　to　act　a　little　for　themselves；　for　they　then　perceive；　that　it　is　only　through　their　address　to　excite　emotions　in　men；　that　pleasure　and　power　are　to　be　obtained。　　Besides；　all　the　books　professedly　written　for　their　instruction；　which　make　the　first　impression　on　their　minds；　all　inculcate　the　same　opinions。　　Educated　in　worse　than　Egyptian　bondage；　it　is　unreasonable；　as　well　as　cruel；　to　upbraid　them　with　faults　that　can　scarcely　be　avoided；　unless　a　degree　of　native　vigour　be　supposed；　that　falls　to　the　lot　of　very　few　amongst　mankind。　For　instance；　the　severest　sarcasms　have　been　levelled　against　the　sex；　and　they　have　been　ridiculed　for　repeating　〃a　set　of　phrases　learnt　by　rote；〃　when　nothing　could　be　more　natural；　considering　the　education　they　receive；　and　that　their　〃highest　praise　is　to　obey；　unargued〃the　will　of　man。　　If　they　are　not　allowed　to　have　reason　sufficient　to　govern　their　own　conductwhy；　all　they　learnmust　be　learned　by　rote！　　And　when　all　their　ingenuity　is　called　forth　to　adjust　their　dress；　〃a　passion　for　a　scarlet　coat；〃　is　so　natural；　that　it　never　surprised　me；　and；　allowing　Pope's　summary　of　their　character　to　be　just；　〃that　every　woman　is　at　heart　a　rake；〃　why　should　they　be　bitterly　censured　for　seeking　a　congenial　mind；　and　preferring　a　rake　to　a　man　of　sense？　Rakes　know　how　to　work　on　their　sensibility；　whilst　the　modest　merit　of　reasonable　men　has；　of　course；　less　effect　on　their　feelings；　and　they　cannot　reach　the　heart　by　the　way　of　the　understanding；　because　they　have　few　sentiments　in　common。　It　seems　a　little　absurd　to　expect　women　to　be　more　reasonable　than　men　in　their　LIKINGS；　and　still　to　deny　them　the　uncontroled　use　of　reason。　　When　do　men　FALL　IN　LOVE　with　sense？　　When　do　they；　with　their　superior　powers　and　advantages；　turn　from　the　person　to　the　mind？　　And　how　can　they　then　expect　women；　who　are　only　taught　to　observe　behaviour；　and　acquire　manners　rather　than　morals；　to　despise　what　they　have　been　all　their　lives　labouring　to　attain？　Where　are　they　suddenly　to　find　judgment　enough　to　weigh　patiently　the　sense　of　an　awkward　virtuous　man；　when　his　manners；　of　which　they　are　made　critical　judges；　are　rebuffing；　and　his　conversation　cold　and　dull；　because　it　does　not　consist　of　pretty　repartees；　or　well…turned　compliments？　　In　order　to　admire　or　esteem　any　thing　for　a　continuance；　we　must；　at　least；　have　our　curiosity　excited　by　knowing；　in　some　degree；　what　we　admire；　for　we　are　unable　to　estimate　the　value　of　qualities　and　virtues　above　our　comprehension。　　Such　a　respect；　when　it　is　felt；　may　be　very　sublime；　and　the　confused　consciousness　of　humility　may　render　the　dependent　creature　an　interesting　object；　in　some　points　of　view；　but　human　love　must　have　grosser　ingredients；　and　the　person　very　naturally　will　come　in　for　its　shareand；　an　ample　share　it　mostly　has！　Love　is；　in　a　great　degree；　an　arbitrary　passion；　and　will　reign　like　some　other　stalking　mischiefs；　by　its　own　authority；　without　deigning　to　reason；　and　it　may　also　be　easily　distinguished　from　esteem；　the　foundation　of　friendship；　because　it　is　often　excited　by　evanescent　beauties　and　graces；　though　to　give　an　energy　to　the　sentiment　something　more　solid　must　deepen　their　impression　and　set　the　imagination　to　work；　to　make　the　most　fair　the　first　good。　Common　passions　are　excited　by　common　qualities。　　Men　look　for　beauty　and　the　simper　of　good　humoured　docility：　　women　are　captivated　by　easy　manners：　a　gentleman…like　man　seldom　fails　to　please　them；　and　their　thirsty　ears　eagerly　drink　the　insinuating　nothings　of　politeness；　whilst　they　turn　from　the　unintelligible　sounds　of　the　charmerreason；　charm　he　never　so　wisely。　　With　respect　to　superficial　accomplishments；　the　rake　certainly　has　the　advantage；　and　of　these；　females　can　form　an　opinion；　for　it　is　their　own　ground。　　Rendered　gay　and　giddy　by　the　whole　tenor　of　their　lives；　the　very　aspect　of　wisdom；　or　the　severe　graces　of　virtue　must　have　a　lugubrious　appearance　to　them；　and　produce　a　kind　of　restraint　from　which　they　and　love；　sportive　child；　naturally　revolt。　　Without　taste；　excepting　of　the　lighter　kind；　for　taste　is　the　offspring　of　judgment；　how　can　they　discover；　that　true　beauty　and　grace　must　arise　from　the　play　of　the　mind？　and　how　can　they　be　expected　to　relish　in　a　lover　what　they　do　not；　or　very　imperfectly；　possess　themselves？　　The　sympathy　that　unites　hearts；　and　invites　to　confidence；　in　them　is　so　very　faint；　that　it　cannot　take　fire；　and　thus　mount　to　passion。　　No；　I　repeat　it；　the　love　cherished　by　such　minds；　must　have　grosser　fuel！　The　inference　is　obvious；　till　women　are　led　to　exercise　their　understandings；　they　should　not　be　satirized　for　their　attachment　to　rakes；　nor　even　for　being　rakes　at　heart；　when　it　appears　to　be　the　inevitable　consequence　of　their　education。　　They　who　live　to　please　must　find　their　enjoyments；　their　happiness；　in　pleasure！　It　is　a　trite；　yet　true　remark；　that　we　never　do　any　thing　well；　unless　we　love　it　for　its　own　sake。　Supposing；　however；　for　a　moment；　that　women　were；　in　some　future　revolution　of　time；　to　become；　what　I　sincerely　wish　them　to　be；　even　love　would　acquire　more　serious　dignity；　and　be　purified　in　its　own　fires；　and　virtue　giving　true　delicacy　to　their　affections；　they　would　turn　with　disgust　from　a　rake。　　Reasoning　then；　as　well　as　feeling；　the　only　province　of　woman；　at　present；　they　might　easily　guard　against　exterior　graces；　and　quickly　learn　to　despise　the　sensibility　that　had　been　excited　and　hackneyed　in　the　ways　of　women；　whose　trade　was　vice；　and　allurement's　wanton　airs。　　They　would　recollect　that　the　flame；　（one　must　use　appropriate　expressions；）　which　they　wished　to　light　up；　had　been　exhausted　by　lust；　and　that　the　sated　appetite；　losing　all　relish　for　pure　and　simple　pleasures；　could　only　be　roused　by　licentious　arts　of　variety。　　What　satisfaction　could　a　woman　of　delicacy　promise　herself　in　a　union　with　such　a　man；　when　the　very　artlessness　of　her　affection　might　appear　insipid？　　Thus　does　Dryden　describe　the　situation：　〃Where　love　is　duty　on　the　female　side；　On　theirs　mere　sensual　gust；　and　sought　with　surly　pride。〃　But　one　grand　truth　women　have　yet　to　learn；　though　much　it　imports　them　to　act　accordingly。　　In　the　choice　of　a　husband　t