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a vindication of the rights of woman-第25章

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istinction of fortune。  The evil is sometimes more serious; and domestics are deprived of innocent indulgences; and made to work beyond their strength; in order to enable the notable woman to keep a better table; and outshine her neighbours in finery and parade。  If she attend to her children; it is; in general; to dress them in a costly mannerand; whether; this attention arises from vanity or fondness; it is equally pernicious。 Besides; how many women of this description pass their days; or; at least their evenings; discontentedly。  Their husbands acknowledge that they are good managers; and chaste wives; but leave home to seek for more agreeable; may I be allowed to use a significant French word; piquant society; and the patient drudge; who fulfils her task; like a blind horse in a mill; is defrauded of her just reward; for the wages due to her are the caresses of her husband; and women who have so few resources in themselves; do not very patiently bear this privation of a natural right。 A fine lady; on the contrary; has been taught to look down with contempt on the vulgar employments of life; though she has only been incited to acquire accomplishments that rise a degree above sense; for even corporeal accomplishments cannot be acquired with any degree of precision; unless the understanding has been strengthened by exercise。  Without a foundation of principles taste is superficial; and grace must arise from something deeper than imitation。  The imagination; however; is heated; and the feelings rendered fastidious; if not sophisticated; or; a counterpoise of judgment is not acquired; when the heart still remains artless; though it becomes too tender。 These women are often amiable; and their hearts are really more sensible to general benevolence; more alive to the sentiments that civilize life; than the square elbowed family drudge; but; wanting a due proportion of reflection and self…government; they only inspire love; and are the mistresses of their husbands; whilst they have any hold on their affections; and the platonic friends of his male acquaintance。  These are the fair defects in nature; the women who appear to be created not to enjoy the fellowship of man; but to save him from sinking into absolute brutality; by rubbing off the rough angles of his character; and by playful dalliance to give some dignity to the appetite that draws him to them。  Gracious Creator of the whole human race! hast thou created such a being as woman; who can trace thy wisdom in thy works; and feel that thou alone art by thy nature; exalted above herfor no better purpose? Can she believe that she was only made to submit to man her equal; a being; who; like her; was sent into the world to acquire virtue? Can she consent to be occupied merely to please him; merely to adorn the earth; when her soul is capable of rising to thee?  And can she rest supinely dependent on man for reason; when she ought to mount with him the arduous steeps of knowledge? Yet; if love be the supreme good; let women be only educated to inspire it; and let every charm be polished to intoxicate the senses; but; if they are moral beings; let them have a chance to become intelligent; and let love to man be only a part of that glowing flame of universal love; which; after encircling humanity; mounts in grateful incense to God。 To fulfil domestic duties much resolution is necessary; and a serious kind of perseverance that requires a more firm support than emotions; however lively and true to nature。  To give an example of order; the soul of virtue; some austerity of behaviour must be adopted; scarcely to be expected from a being who; from its infancy; has been made the weathercock of its own sensations。 Whoever rationally means to be useful; must have a plan of conduct; and; in the discharge of the simplest duty; we are often obliged to act contrary to the present impulse of tenderness or compassion。 Severity is frequently the most certain; as well as the most sublime proof of affection; and the want of this power over the feelings; and of that lofty; dignified affection; which makes a person prefer the future good of the beloved object to a present gratification; is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their children; and has made it questionable; whether negligence or indulgence is most hurtful:  but I am inclined to think; that the latter has done most harm。 Mankind seem to agree; that children should be left under the management of women during their childhood。  Now; from all the observation that I have been able to make; women of sensibility are the most unfit for this task; because they will infallibly; carried away by their feelings; spoil a child's temper。  The management of the temper; the first and most important branch of education; requires the sober steady eye of reason; a plan of conduct equally distant from tyranny and indulgence; yet these are the extremes that people of sensibility alternately fall into; always shooting beyond the mark。  I have followed this train of reasoning much further; till I have concluded; that a person of genius is the most improper person to be employed in education; public or private。 Minds of this rare species see things too much in masses; and seldom; if ever; have a good temper。  That habitual cheerfulness; termed good humour; is; perhaps; as seldom united with great mental powers; as with strong feelings。  And those people who follow; with interest and admiration; the flights of genius; or; with cooler approbation suck in the instruction; which has been elaborately prepared for them by the profound thinker; ought not to be disgusted; if they find the former choleric; and the latter morose; because liveliness of fancy; and a tenacious comprehension of mind; are scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which leads a man; at least to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others; instead of roughly confronting them。 But; treating of education or manners; minds of a superior class are not to be considered; they may be left to chance; it is the multitude; with moderate abilities; who call for instruction; and catch the colour of the atmosphere they breathe。  This respectable concourse; I contend; men and women; should not have their sensations heightened in the hot…bed of luxurious indolence; at the expence of their understanding; for; unless there be a ballast of understanding; they will never become either virtuous or free:  an aristocracy; founded on property; or sterling talents; will ever sweep before it; the alternately timid and ferocious slaves of feeling。 Numberless are the arguments; to take another view of the subject; brought forward with a show of reason; because supposed to be deduced from nature; that men have used morally and physically to degrade the sex。  I must notice a few。 The female understanding has often been spoken of with contempt; as arriving sooner at maturity than the male。  I shall not answer this argument by alluding to the early proofs of reason; as well as genius; in Cowley; Milton; and Pope; (Many other names might be added。) but only appeal to experience to decide whether young men; who are early introduced into company (and examples now abound) do not acquire the same precocity。  So notorious is
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