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letters to his son, 1748-第13章

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Their lives are well worth your reading。  They were poisoned themselves by the poisoned wine which they had prepared for others; the father died of it; but Caesar recovered。

Sixtus the Fifth was the son of a swineherd; and raised himself to the popedom by his abilities: he was a great knave; but an able and singular one。

Here is history enough for to…day: you shall have some more soon。  Adieu。




LETTER XLII

LONDON; June 21; O。 S。  1748。

DEAR BOY: Your very bad enunciation runs so much in my head; and gives me such real concern; that it will be the subject of this; and; I believe; of many more letters。  I congratulate both you and myself; that; was informed of it (as I hope) in time to prevent it: and shall ever think myself; as hereafter you will; I am sure think yourself; infinitely obliged to Sir Charles Williams for informing me of it。  Good God! if this ungraceful and disagreeable manner of speaking had; either by your negligence or mine; become habitual to you; as in a couple of years more it would have been; what a figure would you have made in company; or in a public assembly?  Who would have liked you in the one or attended you; in the other?  Read what Cicero and Quintilian say of enunciation; and see what a stress they lay upon the gracefulness of it; nay; Cicero goes further; and even maintains; that a good figure is necessary for an orator; and particularly that he must not be vastus; that is; overgrown and clumsy。  He shows by it that he knew mankind well; and knew the powers of an agreeable figure and a graceful; manner。  Men; as well as women; are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings。 The way to the heart is through the senses; please their eyes and their ears and the work is half done。  I have frequently known a man's fortune decided for ever by his first address。  If it is pleasing; people are hurried involuntarily into a persuasion that he has a merit; which possibly he has not; as; on the other hand; if it is ungraceful; they are immediately prejudiced against him; and unwilling to allow him the merit which it may be he has。  Nor is this sentiment so unjust and unreasonable as at first it may seem; for if a man has parts; he must know of what infinite consequence it is to him to have a graceful manner of speaking; and a genteel and pleasing address; he will cultivate and improve them to the utmost。  Your figure is a good one; you have no natural defect in the organs of speech; your address may be engaging; and your manner of speaking graceful; if you will; so that if you are not so; neither I nor the world can ascribe it to anything but your want of parts。  What is the constant and just observation as to all actors upon the stage?  Is it not; that those who have the best sense; always speak the best; though they may happen not to have the best voices?  They will speak plainly; distinctly; and with the proper emphasis; be their voices ever so bad。 Had Roscius spoken QUICK; THICK; and UNGRACEFULLY; I will answer for it; that Cicero would not have thought him worth the oration which he made in his favor。  Words were given us to communicate our ideas by: and there must be something inconceivably absurd in uttering them in such a manner as that either people cannot understand them; or will not desire to understand them。  I tell you; truly and sincerely; that I shall judge of your parts by your speaking gracefully or ungracefully。  If you have parts; you will never be at rest till you have brought yourself to a habit of speaking most gracefully; for I aver; that it is in your power You will desire Mr。 Harte; that you may read aloud to him every day; and that he will interrupt and correct you every time that you read too fast; do not observe the proper stops; or lay a wrong emphasis。  You will take care to open your teeth when you speak; to articulate every word distinctly; and to beg of Mr。 Harte; Mr。 Eliot; or whomsoever you speak to; to remind and stop you; if you ever fall into the rapid and unintelligible mutter。  You will even read aloud to yourself; and time your utterance to your own ear; and read at first much slower than you need to do; in order to correct yourself of that shameful trick of speaking faster than you ought。  In short; if you think right; you will make it your business; your study; and your pleasure to speak well。 Therefore; what I have said in this; and in my last; is more than sufficient; if you have sense; and ten times more would not be sufficient; if you have not; so here I rest it。

Next to graceful speaking; a genteel carriage; and a graceful manner of presenting yourself; are extremely necessary; for they are extremely engaging: and carelessness in these points is much more unpardonable in a young fellow than affectation。  It shows an offensive indifference about pleasing。  I am told by one here; who has seen you lately; that you are awkward in your motions; and negligent of your person: I am sorry for both; and so will you be; when it will be too late; if you continue so some time longer。  Awkwardness of carriage is very alienating; and a total negligence of dress and air is an impertinent insult upon custom and fashion。  You remember Mr。  very well; I am sure; and you must consequently remember his; extreme awkwardness: which; I can assure you; has been a great clog to his parts and merit; that have; with much difficulty; but barely counterbalanced it at last。  Many; to whom I have formerly commended him; have answered me; that they were sure he could not have parts; because he was so awkward: so much are people; as I observed to you before; taken by the eye。  Women have great influence as to a man's fashionable character; and an awkward man will never have their votes; which; by the way; are very numerous; and much oftener counted than weighed。  You should therefore give some attention to your dress; and the gracefulness of your motions。  I believe; indeed; that you have no perfect model for either at Leipsig; to form yourself upon; but; however; do not get a habit of neglecting either; and attend properly to both; when you go to courts; where they are very necessary; and where you will have good masters and good models for both。  Your exercises of riding; fencing; and dancing; will civilize and fashion your body and your limbs; and give you; if you will but take it; 'l'air d'un honnete homme'。

I will now conclude with suggesting one reflection to you; which is; that you should be sensible of your good fortune; in having one who interests himself enough in you; to inquire into your faults; in order to inform you of them。  Nobody but myself would be so solicitous; either to know or correct them; so that you might consequently be ignorant of them yourself; for our own self…love draws a thick veil between us and our faults。  But when you hear yours from me; you may be sure that you hear them from one who for your sake only desires to correct them; from one whom you cannot suspect of any; partiality but in your favor; and from one who heartily wishes that his care of you; as a father; may; in a little time; render every care unnecessary but that of a friend。  Adieu。

P。 S。  I condole with you for the untimely and violent death of the tune
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